Friday, January 27, 2012

My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?

I need alot of help ! Im a single parent and my daughter just turned 6. She has pdd nos autism and is verbal.I admit I do curse ALOT but my daughter has started to repeat the curses that I say on a regular basis. Last nite we were coming home chuckecheese on public transportation and she was throwing a toy around and she kept hitting people with it so I took it from her. When I took the toy from her she had a fit. She said "give me my f*cking toy back!" Like 5 times . Everyone around us was gasping and totally shocked than she had a total meltdown and still cursed and told me to "let her f*cking coat go " over and over again. I have NEVER been so embarassed in my life and I have lots of embarassing moments but NOTHING tops this. It's been driving me NUTS. I already know I have to stop cursing PERIOD around her but how can I stop her cursing? She doesnt even know its a bad word , I was so upset when I got home that I spanked her and took her tv out of her room for misbehaving. She KNOWS she was misbehaving and being a bad girl. She is usually good and i can take her anywhere so I was shocked at the bratty behavior she showed last nite. She is heavy and made her body limp and i had to drag her off the train or we wouldve missed our stop all the while she's screaming f bombs! I dont know what to do. I tried to tell her its a bad word but she's still saying it .My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
I'm sure that, when you get your act cleaned up and your mouth washed out, and do it consistently, and long enough hers will clean up too. (Wouldn't hurt for both of you to get in church and expose her to some positive role models.)







PapawMy 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
To me, telling kids words are bad doesn't really mean anything. Tell her she's not allowed to use that word. That if she does, she will ( whatever)
Tell her you were wrong for saying it too. That if you say it you will (whatever)
Well, first don't use foul language. She is just doing what she sees you doing. Second, don't show her attention when she does it. If you give a lot of attention, she may do it to get that attention from you.My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
Stop using foul language in her presence. Children mimic their role models.
Could be scarlets syndrome.My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
if your gonna swear she will copy, easy as that really. you cant tell her off for thing you say yourself
wash her mouth out with soap
Liquid soap in the mouth.

Decades of parents have done this. No child was ever harmed.
You should win mother of the year teaching her those words.
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Ok lol I'll be serious. You've obviously not been a good mother teaching her those words but sit her down and talk to her and say that those are bad words. It's not use hitting a child, I should know because it won't do any good it will make her more bad because you hurting her that's what happens if my parents smack me (which is rarely but when they do it makes me behave more badly)
you reap what u sow... get a jar , or box, every time u swear put money or an item of yours in there, and have her do the same, if she (and/or u) go a day with no swearing then u can get one item out of the box, but for every bad word 1 item goes in the box, eventually she will learn it is not worth it to say bad words, and u will too. children learn best by example. No one can set a better then mom =)

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