I have traffic tickets and parking tickets from when i was 18 for more then $2000. I owe Tmobile $800 from a cellphone i got when i was 18. I have something on my credit report saying i took out a mortgage for a house under my name when i was 14??? and now the government decided to throw a paper at me saying i owe them $3,000 for unemployment that i claimed but i really was not working. I am homeless, i live in my friends garage with no family in California. I have applied and applied for jobs and barely got a job at ChuckeCheese less then 20 hours a week on minimum wage. I cannot pay off this growing debt while supporting myself.... PLEASE HELPI am 22 and I need help getting out of debt What do i do?!?!?
If this is true, it breaks my heart! Where are your parents?
Ignoring it won't make it go away. You need to deal with each issue. First on the tickets, I have heard of people doing community service in lieu on $$. You need to go to the court and talk to them about that. For the mortgage, write each credit reporting agency, send a copy of you ID %26amp; Birthcertificate if you have it and explain that the mtg debt cannot possilby be yours, they will investigate. For the Unemployment, the EDD audits unemployment claims with the employer. There may have been an error. You should write a letter telling them that you were not working and were entitled to the money you received and ask them to verify the information.
The T-mobile is the ugly one. They have probably already written it off %26amp; sent it to collection. If that is the case, you won't be able to pay t-mobile you will have to deal the collection agency and they are jerks. Collection agencies buy debts from companies and then the companies write the loss off on their taxes. Collection agencies may have paid pennies on the dollar for the debt and you may be able to negotiate it down.
The economy is horrible right now and a lot of people are out of work, don't give up.
Good Luck!!!I am 22 and I need help getting out of debt What do i do?!?!?
first you write to the Credit Agencies and State that you are not the person responsible for that Mortgage since you were only 14 yrs of age. Get that removed
Start a house cleaning business. For the price of a bucket, pine sol and windex you can earn 15 an hour.
Visit Beauty Salons and put up posters. Wash Windows, clean gutters, do something and stop with the self pityI am 22 and I need help getting out of debt What do i do?!?!?
I'm not sure how filing for bankruptcy works.. but that could work for you.
Friday, January 27, 2012
Any birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
my little sister's birthday is next week and i wanna put a party for her becasue we havent celebrate it in 3 years
at first i thought putting it in chuckecheese would be good but its $16 per kid and there might be 28 kids coming so its going wayyyyyyyy over the budget. then i thought we should celebrate it in Build A Bear the cheapest price is 12 dollars per kid and my dad says no. if we dont find somewhere then we might need to get it in our home. im not sure many paretns would let their kids in peoples homes and we live in a apartment that cant fit 28 screaming kids. any ideas??
BTW i live in Canada ON Toronto.Any birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
you could always go to chuck E. cheese and not pay for the party thing. It is a lot cheaper that way. You have to check with them and make sure it is okay, most will let you bring in your own cake and decorations.
bowling alleys are a cheap thing--with the bumpers up of course.
cut down the guest list, most parents might want to come with their kids. Only have 5 to 10 kids.
At your apartment you can still do something fun and cool. Check out playhouse Disney and nick jr. for cool kids birthday party ideas, invitations, printables, games, food, etc... (my 5 year old showed me this particular section of it) or simply Google it trust me you will come up with some awesome stuff.
Definitely cut that guest list.
Edit: McDonald's is a great idea!
http://tv.disney.go.com/playhouse/grown-鈥?/a> click the arrows on the left at top or bottom for more themes some are clearly for different holidays but there are more birthdays than anything.
http://www.nickjr.com/party/index.jhtml
game ideas for at home
pinata
pin the tail on the donkey or whatever animal you want
dance contest and freeze when the music stops etc...
face painting
movie time (make sure you have popcorn and movie munchies) this will allow adults and older kids to restAny birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
If you want to throw the party at your house i suggest a princess theme. Maybe ollie koala's would be good. My little sister went there for her 7th b-day and it was a blast.
I think its a bit cheaper than Chuck.e cheeses but im not so sure.
If you can't think of anything then try your home. Get decorations and make a list of diffrent games to keep doing. Like musical chairs or freeze dance.
Whatever works out best.Any birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
Well maybe you could use a friends home if it is bigger. Or you could limit the number of kids.
but house parties that you plan yourself are super fun because you can be as creative as you want.
use some of her favorite things
and choose a theme
find creative games and food
and make your own decorations!
it is so fun!
lol hope i dont sound crazyAny birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
You could always try McDonalds or Burger King, maybe even Pizza Hut.
If not, you could go to a swimming pool which is really cheap per kid and I bet you could even get a discount if you asked them.
G'luck.
hmm well last summer i helped my friend out with her daughter's 6th birthday party. we actually put on a little tea party for her and about 15 of her friends. It was very fun and very enjoyable. also pretty affordable. the invitations told the girls to come in their finest dresses, mostly consisted of little girls in disney princess dresses, and to do there hair nicely. we had them play and be kids for a while and then we called them in to eat. we served finger sandwiches and pizza cut in small triangles on a platter. for dessert we put berries and whip cream in a serving bowl and came around and gave them a scoop. we pretty much acted like their servents and wore aprons. after, we opened presents and ate cake and painted their nails. all in all it was adorable and they had a blast. you could probably rent out a room somewhere maybe the fire house and get frilly princess decorations. All though 28 kids is a bit much and may be hard to maintain so many little ones. also if you have boys there they most likely will oppose to tea parties. hope that helps good luck!
at first i thought putting it in chuckecheese would be good but its $16 per kid and there might be 28 kids coming so its going wayyyyyyyy over the budget. then i thought we should celebrate it in Build A Bear the cheapest price is 12 dollars per kid and my dad says no. if we dont find somewhere then we might need to get it in our home. im not sure many paretns would let their kids in peoples homes and we live in a apartment that cant fit 28 screaming kids. any ideas??
BTW i live in Canada ON Toronto.Any birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
you could always go to chuck E. cheese and not pay for the party thing. It is a lot cheaper that way. You have to check with them and make sure it is okay, most will let you bring in your own cake and decorations.
bowling alleys are a cheap thing--with the bumpers up of course.
cut down the guest list, most parents might want to come with their kids. Only have 5 to 10 kids.
At your apartment you can still do something fun and cool. Check out playhouse Disney and nick jr. for cool kids birthday party ideas, invitations, printables, games, food, etc... (my 5 year old showed me this particular section of it) or simply Google it trust me you will come up with some awesome stuff.
Definitely cut that guest list.
Edit: McDonald's is a great idea!
http://tv.disney.go.com/playhouse/grown-鈥?/a> click the arrows on the left at top or bottom for more themes some are clearly for different holidays but there are more birthdays than anything.
http://www.nickjr.com/party/index.jhtml
game ideas for at home
pinata
pin the tail on the donkey or whatever animal you want
dance contest and freeze when the music stops etc...
face painting
movie time (make sure you have popcorn and movie munchies) this will allow adults and older kids to restAny birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
If you want to throw the party at your house i suggest a princess theme. Maybe ollie koala's would be good. My little sister went there for her 7th b-day and it was a blast.
I think its a bit cheaper than Chuck.e cheeses but im not so sure.
If you can't think of anything then try your home. Get decorations and make a list of diffrent games to keep doing. Like musical chairs or freeze dance.
Whatever works out best.Any birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
Well maybe you could use a friends home if it is bigger. Or you could limit the number of kids.
but house parties that you plan yourself are super fun because you can be as creative as you want.
use some of her favorite things
and choose a theme
find creative games and food
and make your own decorations!
it is so fun!
lol hope i dont sound crazyAny birthday party ideas for 5 year old kids?
You could always try McDonalds or Burger King, maybe even Pizza Hut.
If not, you could go to a swimming pool which is really cheap per kid and I bet you could even get a discount if you asked them.
G'luck.
hmm well last summer i helped my friend out with her daughter's 6th birthday party. we actually put on a little tea party for her and about 15 of her friends. It was very fun and very enjoyable. also pretty affordable. the invitations told the girls to come in their finest dresses, mostly consisted of little girls in disney princess dresses, and to do there hair nicely. we had them play and be kids for a while and then we called them in to eat. we served finger sandwiches and pizza cut in small triangles on a platter. for dessert we put berries and whip cream in a serving bowl and came around and gave them a scoop. we pretty much acted like their servents and wore aprons. after, we opened presents and ate cake and painted their nails. all in all it was adorable and they had a blast. you could probably rent out a room somewhere maybe the fire house and get frilly princess decorations. All though 28 kids is a bit much and may be hard to maintain so many little ones. also if you have boys there they most likely will oppose to tea parties. hope that helps good luck!
Birthday party for my one year old?
My son is turning One and since I have no money for a huge party, I decided i would have it at ChuckeCheese. This way i pay $150 for eight kids which includes food and entertainment. I feel guilty though because it's his first birthday and i cannot make more special for my son. I was thinking of hosting at Fuddruckers (party room) which will be $83 for 12kids but i would have to come up with entertaimnt (clow/face painter) and they run no less than $150. Including cake and decorations i will need at least $280. I was laid off and this is simply just not a good time for me. Does anyone know of entaterment that i could hire that would be cheaper? maybe for a party you have hosted before. kids ages range between 1yr and 9yrs.Birthday party for my one year old?
Why make such a big fuss? Are these kids your relatives? You don't need to go to CEC or hire clowns or entertainers for a one year old's birthday. HE isn't going to remember it, and the other kids won't 'expect' any more entertainment than you choose to provide.
Buy a cake and a carton of ice cream. Have the party in your home and invite only as many people as you can comfortably host. (Meaning, close relatives and a couple of close friends.) Put a DVD on to entertain the kids, while the adults reminisce about how quickly the year has gone. After 1-2 hours, say goodbye. Birthday party for my one year old?
My friend had the most awesome idea for a 1 year birthday. She just used a neighbors pool and had a barbecue, the baby loved it .
Two links to the video
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=7xPxF_dOeA鈥?/a>
and
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=ruPpVNs7MY鈥?/a>
sorry i forgot about this one she was just so cute
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=15a_3vuUOp鈥?/a>
OM Gawsh! My daughter got 50 dollars worth of presents and a rice crispy treat for her fourth birthday with 5 kids and no entertainment but one another. She was thrilled!
Get real, he isn't even gonna remember and if he did what would you be teaching him about quality vs quantity? Love your kid and make sure he gets the necessities, don't look to spoil him. As long as you celebrate his birthday with joy in your heart that he is in your life that will be good enough.
Peek-a-boo and Hide and Seek are very popular. And Go Fish and Old Maid.
I have an idea, ask him who he wants to come and where he wants to go. If he says ChuckeCheese take him there if he says Fuddruckers do it there.
Wanting to know who to hire for cheap is one thing, acting like what you have isn't good enough is another.Birthday party for my one year old?
For my sons Bday I made it about family and friends. Hes not gonna remember anything and they were still there to celebrate him. But hosting a bunch of kids is just not necessary at this age. We had a nice BBQ at a park and had cake and tons of food and we all just hung out and enjoyed being together, and my son had a blast. Just running free in the park and being awed over by family. And I think it cost maybe $100 dollars total. We made it more of a potluck so everyone brought food. I wouldnt have changed it at all. When hes two I will make it a little more about kids, but still more family. The older he gets the less he will want to have his bday all about family, so do it now. My son turned 1 this august just so you know.
One year olds don't need a party like you are describing - #1- they will not remember the party -- it is just for you! #2-Most "charactors" scare toddlers. #3- Save the money for Christmas -- If you have 8-12 kids to come - what a chaotic mess! Just have family, maybe pizza or a hot dog and cake. Get your son his own cupcake (a one-year old usually can't blow out a candle) - and let him have at it -- get a picture --that is what you'll remember. Most kids would just rather play together - or do "twister" or set up a little "stage" and video their singing debut - (later you can put it on a disc and give it to them to thank them for coming to the party.) Wait until he is 4 or 5 and will actually remember his birthday ---Birthday party for my one year old?
I have had two kids turn one and neither of them remember their first birthday, sorry. All the trouble and turmoil is for nothing if your goal is to throw a great first birthday party for them. If you want to throw the party for others then why? Get some pizzas and a couple of dollar games, the newest kids movie and make an awesome cake. Have the party in a nice home of a family member with a bathtub handy to clean up your cake faced baby. You could spend around $50 and forget about the worry. Take lots of pictures and save the big parties for when your kid can remember them.
I think the best thing you could do for him is to make some cupcakes with some fun colors on top, have his closest family and friends over and then have fun. Hang balloons, streamers, have some fun children's songs playing on the radio and if it is where you can have it outside, then have a little kiddie pool or just a bunch of balls, it's his party, he needs to be able to toddle around and just have fun it is after all his party. The Chuck E. Cheese parties will come later when they start telling you what they want for their party, trust me that will come soon enough. One of my girls favorite parties was the homemade carnival I did at home for under 100.00. I had bought some face paint, I made a Plinko board, we had miniature golf, fishing, all of these I got at my local dollar tree. Whatever you do just have fun with it.
Why make such a big fuss? Are these kids your relatives? You don't need to go to CEC or hire clowns or entertainers for a one year old's birthday. HE isn't going to remember it, and the other kids won't 'expect' any more entertainment than you choose to provide.
Buy a cake and a carton of ice cream. Have the party in your home and invite only as many people as you can comfortably host. (Meaning, close relatives and a couple of close friends.) Put a DVD on to entertain the kids, while the adults reminisce about how quickly the year has gone. After 1-2 hours, say goodbye. Birthday party for my one year old?
My friend had the most awesome idea for a 1 year birthday. She just used a neighbors pool and had a barbecue, the baby loved it .
Two links to the video
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=7xPxF_dOeA鈥?/a>
and
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=ruPpVNs7MY鈥?/a>
sorry i forgot about this one she was just so cute
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=15a_3vuUOp鈥?/a>
OM Gawsh! My daughter got 50 dollars worth of presents and a rice crispy treat for her fourth birthday with 5 kids and no entertainment but one another. She was thrilled!
Get real, he isn't even gonna remember and if he did what would you be teaching him about quality vs quantity? Love your kid and make sure he gets the necessities, don't look to spoil him. As long as you celebrate his birthday with joy in your heart that he is in your life that will be good enough.
Peek-a-boo and Hide and Seek are very popular. And Go Fish and Old Maid.
I have an idea, ask him who he wants to come and where he wants to go. If he says ChuckeCheese take him there if he says Fuddruckers do it there.
Wanting to know who to hire for cheap is one thing, acting like what you have isn't good enough is another.Birthday party for my one year old?
For my sons Bday I made it about family and friends. Hes not gonna remember anything and they were still there to celebrate him. But hosting a bunch of kids is just not necessary at this age. We had a nice BBQ at a park and had cake and tons of food and we all just hung out and enjoyed being together, and my son had a blast. Just running free in the park and being awed over by family. And I think it cost maybe $100 dollars total. We made it more of a potluck so everyone brought food. I wouldnt have changed it at all. When hes two I will make it a little more about kids, but still more family. The older he gets the less he will want to have his bday all about family, so do it now. My son turned 1 this august just so you know.
One year olds don't need a party like you are describing - #1- they will not remember the party -- it is just for you! #2-Most "charactors" scare toddlers. #3- Save the money for Christmas -- If you have 8-12 kids to come - what a chaotic mess! Just have family, maybe pizza or a hot dog and cake. Get your son his own cupcake (a one-year old usually can't blow out a candle) - and let him have at it -- get a picture --that is what you'll remember. Most kids would just rather play together - or do "twister" or set up a little "stage" and video their singing debut - (later you can put it on a disc and give it to them to thank them for coming to the party.) Wait until he is 4 or 5 and will actually remember his birthday ---Birthday party for my one year old?
I have had two kids turn one and neither of them remember their first birthday, sorry. All the trouble and turmoil is for nothing if your goal is to throw a great first birthday party for them. If you want to throw the party for others then why? Get some pizzas and a couple of dollar games, the newest kids movie and make an awesome cake. Have the party in a nice home of a family member with a bathtub handy to clean up your cake faced baby. You could spend around $50 and forget about the worry. Take lots of pictures and save the big parties for when your kid can remember them.
I think the best thing you could do for him is to make some cupcakes with some fun colors on top, have his closest family and friends over and then have fun. Hang balloons, streamers, have some fun children's songs playing on the radio and if it is where you can have it outside, then have a little kiddie pool or just a bunch of balls, it's his party, he needs to be able to toddle around and just have fun it is after all his party. The Chuck E. Cheese parties will come later when they start telling you what they want for their party, trust me that will come soon enough. One of my girls favorite parties was the homemade carnival I did at home for under 100.00. I had bought some face paint, I made a Plinko board, we had miniature golf, fishing, all of these I got at my local dollar tree. Whatever you do just have fun with it.
How do I discipline my 5 year old for stealing?
When my son was about 3 and a 1/2 he stole a small toy from the checkout line at Walmart. Of course I didn't realize until we had already arrived home and noticed a toy I had never seen before so I asked him where he got it and he said from the store we were just at. I took it from him and explained that it wasn't nice and how would he feel if someone took his toys without asking. He replied "I don't like that" and I said "Well, don't do that again or I will tell Daddy and he will be in big trouble". I didn't tell my husband and he never did it again up until late last year when he was nearly 5. The same thing happened, he took another toy from the Walmart checkout line. This time we noticed when we got in the car and he was trying to show his little sister his new toy. This time my husband was with us and he drug him back into the store and made him give it back to the cashier and apologize for taking it. When we arrived home my husband lead him to his room gave him a stern talk and left him in there with nothing to do for the rest of the day. Since then there have been a couple of other times that he attemped the same thing but I've grown accustomed to checking his pockets prior to leaving the stores. And he gets all of his toys taken away for a week each time he's been caught. And the last time he was caught I sat him down and told him what happens to bad guys who steal and do bad things and asked him if he was bad and he said no. I told him that he was a good boy and he won't fit in with the bad guys at jail and that if he stole again we were going to take him to jail with the policemen. Of course he didn't like that idea. Then it had been quite for months, we thought he was over the phase.
In March of this year we moved in with my In-Laws and they are on the wealthier side so my father in law is always giving me money to take them places. Since I stay at home he wants the kids to get out of the house. About 2 weeks ago he took a $100 bill from my father in laws wallet that was in his pants pocket on his dresser and put the wallet and the pants back where they were. No one noticed until my 2 year old was running around the house with a $100 bill saying "CJ gave me money for ChuckeCheese" and my mother in law brought it to me asking where she got it. I had no idea, then my father in law checked his wallet and noticed it was missing. Immediately I questioned CJ (my 5 yo) and he admitted guilt. I was furious and I drug him to his room and told him to stay in his bed until Daddy got home in a couple of hours. I texted my husband and told him to prepare himself for a talk with CJ bc he stole money and I told him we had to stick to our word and take him to the police station but of course he didn't do that.
This past Saturday he had do go to work with my father in law as i had to do some volunteer work. Yesterday when I was on my way home from a cookout he called me saying we had to have a serious talk about CJ. When we got home my father in law explained that CJ took a $5 bill from the cash register while he was with his business partner for a few minutes and tried to hide it but he caught him and took it from him and told him it was wrong. I am at a loss, I don't know what to do or how to punish him anymore. I know we need to stop this now before he turns into a criminal. My inlaws admit guilt because they give him money for no reason and when he is caught doing something wrong they just say he's little and doesn't understand and let him get away with it. I think that's a load of crap. I think he is old enough to understand that its wrong, he's very smart. And of course my son and I don't really get along, we have clashing personalities and he doesn't listen to me for nothing. I just don't know what to do, he will be starting school in two months, what happens when he gets caught at school with something?
Any thoughts of other parents who've been in the same situation PLEASE give me some input. We are young parents who are in a bit of a pickle with the finances which is why we are here living with my inlaws but I think that they are the number one reason for his bad behavior, I've noticed MANY bad changes in my kids since we've been living here but we can't move for another year, at least. My inlaws won't back off and I'm constantly yelling at my mother inlaw for spoiling them and not being as an adult and teaching them right from wrong. But its hard because they are home most of the day and work at night so they are always around.|||Your child is developing a serious problem and it isn't the in-laws fault. The first time you found him with stolen property, you blew it by basically hiding it. Each event, when discovered should result in him having to take the stolen stuff/money back to the place where he stole it, give it back to the victim and have to say he is sorry to the victim. Then, he should be required to do some "volunteer" work for the victim. Even if it is picking up trash outside of Walmart. He needs to know that he has to admit responsibility when he does something and that there are direct consequences. He is too young for his belief in Jesus to be as meaningful for him as it is for you, so that does nothing. He doesn't understand the stuff you are telling him about jail. Don't put things off until his dad can take care of them, either. You need to deal with those things you discover or he will lose respect for you and by the time dad gets home, there isn't the good mental connection with the thing he did and the consequences. I think this is a bigger problem at this time than you want to admit.|||Neuterize him|||asswhooping|||huh? well read a part of the bible that tells about stealling|||I would hit his hands with a ruler or a belt until he understands|||your child is a criminal you should deport him b4 he tuirns black|||I am sorry, but your son is only 5. And yes I am sure he is smart, but come on, he can't understand the concept of theft and jail, and all that.
This is going to sound harsh, but it seems to me like you don't have any control over him. You threaten him with your husband when he does something wrong, and just send him to his room to wait. Step up and make yourself an athority figure. I really can't stand it when people threaten their kids with other people. When I am with my kids and they do something wrong I disipline them, if my husband is there he does it.
My daughter is 5 and has had a bad spell with stealing as well. Kids don't take stuff because they are bad, they take stuff because they want it. It is that simple. I think taking toys away for a week is a bit harsh. Why don't you try talking to him on his level, and explain that he can't have everything he wants, and sometimes he gets stuff and sometimes he doesn't.
As for your in-laws, make it clear that you are their mom, and you make the decisions for your kids. My grandma always went overboard giving me stuff and my mom asked her to stop. She didn't, I would get black garbage bags full of presents for Christmas, birthdays etc. Finally my mom let me pick a couple things and then took the rest to charity.
I am sure he will grow out of it, but if you keep being so harsh with him I am sure he will eventually start rebelling against you and your husband in a bad way.|||Holy crap that was long but i say you take his favorite toy from him and then tell him he if steals again that he will never get another toy for 5 years|||keep doing what your doing but the thing is he's only 5 so he will probably grow out of it|||First of all just try and breath, believe me I understand what you are going through. No judgements no here's what you do's.
You sound frustrated and somewhat defeated. One must remember defeat is not in a mom's vocabulary. Maybe readjust but not defeat.
You have several things going on here and of course I cam only go by what you have said consciously or unconsciously. Dad sound like the disciplinarian and it is rarely good or effetive to make a child wait to be punished. Using wait till dad gets home,or calling dad at work only sends the message" I don't want to deal with you" it shows a child that as long as dad isn't there I am in the free. If dad is harsh that is even worse because if dad resents ytou calling him at any level and shifting responsibility, there may a lot more going on in the discipline than whatever was the problem to hours earlier. Asking yourself what is your son getting from this? what happens as a result of stealing? for him emotionally....does he get more attention? positive or negative it is still attention. does he get dad time? even if its punishment. Kid's are impulsive and if you have ever looked at something and thought" I want that" and didn't have the impulse control developed to not take it ....you simply would. Your son is 5 but to you he most likely seems older (us parents do that) but his impulse control center may not be developed yet....stop with the criminal,cops and fear tactics they don't really work at that age. Stop the stealing talk all together and deal with each instance as a SEPERATE impulse control loss...."oh grandpa has money in his cool wallet, I want that money cuz money is important to everyone around me" hmmmmm. he didnt hide it...he freely gave it to his sibling...IT IS NOT NEARLY AS BIG OF A DEAL AS YOU FEAR. YOU HAVE MUSCH DEEPER ISSUES WITH THE IN LAWS.....mine were the same....but the more you fight them the more you will lose especially living with them...If they are crossing boundaries try and establish firmer ones but if they are spoiling your kids, try and be patient and understand they are just being themselves.
Try and find the road of least resistance and know nothing is going tohappen that you can't slowly adjust or change when you are on your own again....your kids know these people are different than you and your hubby just relax and let go and if you have any faith in God ask for understanding gratitude and humility...remember this....you love your son...your son adores you...stop being dissapointed and apologize to him for expecting so much from him and explain you are just learning....remeber he adores you and if he is acting contrary to that...it is because he is hurt...and maybe you are to....find things to do, shoot take the money if grandpa is delving it out...have fun and receive there overbearing spoiling the kids rotten behavior as a gift because believe it or not one day you will wish they were there to do it again|||This problem is getting serious. Your son needs a good lesson where it hurts. Leave him behind with a baby sitter when you go out as a family and explain to him that, since he can't be trusted not to steal, he must remain at home. Do it repeatedly, so he understands that the situation is serious. It will hurt you too, but CJ has to be made to accept responsibility for what he does before he starts school. If it takes 6 months of leaving him behind so be it, but something has to be done for his own sake. I wish you good luck.|||Every time he steals, take one of his favorite toys or items that he usually plays with. Repeat this until
he finally realizes what he is doing is wrong.|||Mam, I am sorry to say this but you are gonna have to beat your son! I know it might seem harsh but a smack on the butt won't hurt your child that much. But it will let him know your not going to tolerate it anymore!|||Be furious brake one of his favorite toys or steal it i remember when i was like 5 i stole 2 dinosaur toys from the dentist who we never went we went back the place was on fire (i hope i didn't mess something else up) so i kept the toys but my mom started to steal my video games i asked her why she said it was because of the dinosaurs she then HID my super smash brothers melee (you do not know that game i guess) i snapped and threw the toys at the dentists office that wasn't there|||SPANK the child.
Don't take him to the WalMart anymore - and explain why to him. Tell him as long as he is going to steal - he doesn't get to go anywhere or do fun things.
Next time make HIM return the stolen item and apologize.|||You could call your local police dept. and either bring him by or they may send someone out to talk with CJ about why it isn't ok to steal. Sometimes hearing it from an adult authority figure (other than parents) may snap him out of it. Also, if he has money, and steals a toy from store, take the toy back, make him pay for it, apologize, and the store keeps the item as a punishment. Other than that I can't think of anything else, except that when he does start school and if he does take something that doesn't belong to him, maybe getting caught and getting in trouble @ school may the thing to make him realize that stealing is not ok. Best of luck! :-)|||ok i only read the first paragraph because you wrote a book, and i think you should tell him about crime and stuff, and how he could go to jail(though he's not old enough yet).
tell him their's a way to earn things.
if he does it again, be harsh. take a toy he's playing with, and don't give it back to him, until the end of the day.
there's a lot of things you could do.
like there was this 7 year old who took his parents' car and drove for like 3 miles with the police behind. the kid got sentenced to his room for 4 days. pathetic. do something more drastic than that.|||If you have a friend who is a police officer ask him/her to come and speak with your son....it could put a little bit of fear in his head about how stealing has real consequences.|||Bad seeds only grow when you water them.When kids are young they all have a tendency to take wht they want even though the realize the way there taking it is wrong.It is a phase they must go through,my little brother was spoiled like your son and he is 10 now and well out of that stage,when he was five we called him ''snatch'' because if he saw it he was gone take it he hit up every Walmart Walgreens and basically anywhere we went we constantly had to drag him in and ake it from him and we always laughed and said something lil Snatch strikes again.Many say thats not funny thats going to be a serious problem someday....No not true its just tha five year old mine is very selfish and they only think about what they need and want because thats all their little minds can process,but they realize stealing is wrong thats why they hide it.You have to give their mind time to digest your teachings they wont be able to fully process what your teaching them until the can truly understand it.My little brother is still a handful still spoiled but not a thief ,when he is told no he pouts and frowns but doesnt try to sneak anything.
You have to face thatyour child is always going to be spoiled its a reality especially if you are in a wealthy enviroment.The challenge is going to be taking away that spoiled attitude and start making him earn what he is given.It s a good way to make him learn the value of work.And when he do something wrong whoop his azzz stop talkin thats why he still stealin fasten the rod spank him bodyslam his lil azz,but no dont abuse him but physical discipline isnt bad,it gets through to kids better save the talkin for when their teenagers.
In March of this year we moved in with my In-Laws and they are on the wealthier side so my father in law is always giving me money to take them places. Since I stay at home he wants the kids to get out of the house. About 2 weeks ago he took a $100 bill from my father in laws wallet that was in his pants pocket on his dresser and put the wallet and the pants back where they were. No one noticed until my 2 year old was running around the house with a $100 bill saying "CJ gave me money for ChuckeCheese" and my mother in law brought it to me asking where she got it. I had no idea, then my father in law checked his wallet and noticed it was missing. Immediately I questioned CJ (my 5 yo) and he admitted guilt. I was furious and I drug him to his room and told him to stay in his bed until Daddy got home in a couple of hours. I texted my husband and told him to prepare himself for a talk with CJ bc he stole money and I told him we had to stick to our word and take him to the police station but of course he didn't do that.
This past Saturday he had do go to work with my father in law as i had to do some volunteer work. Yesterday when I was on my way home from a cookout he called me saying we had to have a serious talk about CJ. When we got home my father in law explained that CJ took a $5 bill from the cash register while he was with his business partner for a few minutes and tried to hide it but he caught him and took it from him and told him it was wrong. I am at a loss, I don't know what to do or how to punish him anymore. I know we need to stop this now before he turns into a criminal. My inlaws admit guilt because they give him money for no reason and when he is caught doing something wrong they just say he's little and doesn't understand and let him get away with it. I think that's a load of crap. I think he is old enough to understand that its wrong, he's very smart. And of course my son and I don't really get along, we have clashing personalities and he doesn't listen to me for nothing. I just don't know what to do, he will be starting school in two months, what happens when he gets caught at school with something?
Any thoughts of other parents who've been in the same situation PLEASE give me some input. We are young parents who are in a bit of a pickle with the finances which is why we are here living with my inlaws but I think that they are the number one reason for his bad behavior, I've noticed MANY bad changes in my kids since we've been living here but we can't move for another year, at least. My inlaws won't back off and I'm constantly yelling at my mother inlaw for spoiling them and not being as an adult and teaching them right from wrong. But its hard because they are home most of the day and work at night so they are always around.|||Your child is developing a serious problem and it isn't the in-laws fault. The first time you found him with stolen property, you blew it by basically hiding it. Each event, when discovered should result in him having to take the stolen stuff/money back to the place where he stole it, give it back to the victim and have to say he is sorry to the victim. Then, he should be required to do some "volunteer" work for the victim. Even if it is picking up trash outside of Walmart. He needs to know that he has to admit responsibility when he does something and that there are direct consequences. He is too young for his belief in Jesus to be as meaningful for him as it is for you, so that does nothing. He doesn't understand the stuff you are telling him about jail. Don't put things off until his dad can take care of them, either. You need to deal with those things you discover or he will lose respect for you and by the time dad gets home, there isn't the good mental connection with the thing he did and the consequences. I think this is a bigger problem at this time than you want to admit.|||Neuterize him|||asswhooping|||huh? well read a part of the bible that tells about stealling|||I would hit his hands with a ruler or a belt until he understands|||your child is a criminal you should deport him b4 he tuirns black|||I am sorry, but your son is only 5. And yes I am sure he is smart, but come on, he can't understand the concept of theft and jail, and all that.
This is going to sound harsh, but it seems to me like you don't have any control over him. You threaten him with your husband when he does something wrong, and just send him to his room to wait. Step up and make yourself an athority figure. I really can't stand it when people threaten their kids with other people. When I am with my kids and they do something wrong I disipline them, if my husband is there he does it.
My daughter is 5 and has had a bad spell with stealing as well. Kids don't take stuff because they are bad, they take stuff because they want it. It is that simple. I think taking toys away for a week is a bit harsh. Why don't you try talking to him on his level, and explain that he can't have everything he wants, and sometimes he gets stuff and sometimes he doesn't.
As for your in-laws, make it clear that you are their mom, and you make the decisions for your kids. My grandma always went overboard giving me stuff and my mom asked her to stop. She didn't, I would get black garbage bags full of presents for Christmas, birthdays etc. Finally my mom let me pick a couple things and then took the rest to charity.
I am sure he will grow out of it, but if you keep being so harsh with him I am sure he will eventually start rebelling against you and your husband in a bad way.|||Holy crap that was long but i say you take his favorite toy from him and then tell him he if steals again that he will never get another toy for 5 years|||keep doing what your doing but the thing is he's only 5 so he will probably grow out of it|||First of all just try and breath, believe me I understand what you are going through. No judgements no here's what you do's.
You sound frustrated and somewhat defeated. One must remember defeat is not in a mom's vocabulary. Maybe readjust but not defeat.
You have several things going on here and of course I cam only go by what you have said consciously or unconsciously. Dad sound like the disciplinarian and it is rarely good or effetive to make a child wait to be punished. Using wait till dad gets home,or calling dad at work only sends the message" I don't want to deal with you" it shows a child that as long as dad isn't there I am in the free. If dad is harsh that is even worse because if dad resents ytou calling him at any level and shifting responsibility, there may a lot more going on in the discipline than whatever was the problem to hours earlier. Asking yourself what is your son getting from this? what happens as a result of stealing? for him emotionally....does he get more attention? positive or negative it is still attention. does he get dad time? even if its punishment. Kid's are impulsive and if you have ever looked at something and thought" I want that" and didn't have the impulse control developed to not take it ....you simply would. Your son is 5 but to you he most likely seems older (us parents do that) but his impulse control center may not be developed yet....stop with the criminal,cops and fear tactics they don't really work at that age. Stop the stealing talk all together and deal with each instance as a SEPERATE impulse control loss...."oh grandpa has money in his cool wallet, I want that money cuz money is important to everyone around me" hmmmmm. he didnt hide it...he freely gave it to his sibling...IT IS NOT NEARLY AS BIG OF A DEAL AS YOU FEAR. YOU HAVE MUSCH DEEPER ISSUES WITH THE IN LAWS.....mine were the same....but the more you fight them the more you will lose especially living with them...If they are crossing boundaries try and establish firmer ones but if they are spoiling your kids, try and be patient and understand they are just being themselves.
Try and find the road of least resistance and know nothing is going tohappen that you can't slowly adjust or change when you are on your own again....your kids know these people are different than you and your hubby just relax and let go and if you have any faith in God ask for understanding gratitude and humility...remember this....you love your son...your son adores you...stop being dissapointed and apologize to him for expecting so much from him and explain you are just learning....remeber he adores you and if he is acting contrary to that...it is because he is hurt...and maybe you are to....find things to do, shoot take the money if grandpa is delving it out...have fun and receive there overbearing spoiling the kids rotten behavior as a gift because believe it or not one day you will wish they were there to do it again|||This problem is getting serious. Your son needs a good lesson where it hurts. Leave him behind with a baby sitter when you go out as a family and explain to him that, since he can't be trusted not to steal, he must remain at home. Do it repeatedly, so he understands that the situation is serious. It will hurt you too, but CJ has to be made to accept responsibility for what he does before he starts school. If it takes 6 months of leaving him behind so be it, but something has to be done for his own sake. I wish you good luck.|||Every time he steals, take one of his favorite toys or items that he usually plays with. Repeat this until
he finally realizes what he is doing is wrong.|||Mam, I am sorry to say this but you are gonna have to beat your son! I know it might seem harsh but a smack on the butt won't hurt your child that much. But it will let him know your not going to tolerate it anymore!|||Be furious brake one of his favorite toys or steal it i remember when i was like 5 i stole 2 dinosaur toys from the dentist who we never went we went back the place was on fire (i hope i didn't mess something else up) so i kept the toys but my mom started to steal my video games i asked her why she said it was because of the dinosaurs she then HID my super smash brothers melee (you do not know that game i guess) i snapped and threw the toys at the dentists office that wasn't there|||SPANK the child.
Don't take him to the WalMart anymore - and explain why to him. Tell him as long as he is going to steal - he doesn't get to go anywhere or do fun things.
Next time make HIM return the stolen item and apologize.|||You could call your local police dept. and either bring him by or they may send someone out to talk with CJ about why it isn't ok to steal. Sometimes hearing it from an adult authority figure (other than parents) may snap him out of it. Also, if he has money, and steals a toy from store, take the toy back, make him pay for it, apologize, and the store keeps the item as a punishment. Other than that I can't think of anything else, except that when he does start school and if he does take something that doesn't belong to him, maybe getting caught and getting in trouble @ school may the thing to make him realize that stealing is not ok. Best of luck! :-)|||ok i only read the first paragraph because you wrote a book, and i think you should tell him about crime and stuff, and how he could go to jail(though he's not old enough yet).
tell him their's a way to earn things.
if he does it again, be harsh. take a toy he's playing with, and don't give it back to him, until the end of the day.
there's a lot of things you could do.
like there was this 7 year old who took his parents' car and drove for like 3 miles with the police behind. the kid got sentenced to his room for 4 days. pathetic. do something more drastic than that.|||If you have a friend who is a police officer ask him/her to come and speak with your son....it could put a little bit of fear in his head about how stealing has real consequences.|||Bad seeds only grow when you water them.When kids are young they all have a tendency to take wht they want even though the realize the way there taking it is wrong.It is a phase they must go through,my little brother was spoiled like your son and he is 10 now and well out of that stage,when he was five we called him ''snatch'' because if he saw it he was gone take it he hit up every Walmart Walgreens and basically anywhere we went we constantly had to drag him in and ake it from him and we always laughed and said something lil Snatch strikes again.Many say thats not funny thats going to be a serious problem someday....No not true its just tha five year old mine is very selfish and they only think about what they need and want because thats all their little minds can process,but they realize stealing is wrong thats why they hide it.You have to give their mind time to digest your teachings they wont be able to fully process what your teaching them until the can truly understand it.My little brother is still a handful still spoiled but not a thief ,when he is told no he pouts and frowns but doesnt try to sneak anything.
You have to face thatyour child is always going to be spoiled its a reality especially if you are in a wealthy enviroment.The challenge is going to be taking away that spoiled attitude and start making him earn what he is given.It s a good way to make him learn the value of work.And when he do something wrong whoop his azzz stop talkin thats why he still stealin fasten the rod spank him bodyslam his lil azz,but no dont abuse him but physical discipline isnt bad,it gets through to kids better save the talkin for when their teenagers.
INEED help please?
My little sister Miranda is being very distant eversince our parents left. we now live with our brother whos 25 and hes really nice. my sisters 6 and she use to wake me up every saturday morning to watch cartoons at 9:00 but now she sleeps till 11. and she never really wants to go anywhere anymore. she dident even want to come to chuckEcheese but she ended up having an ok time. my brother feels it his fault and he wants to take her places every friday like the movies, mall, arcade but shes never up to it really. i wasent really sad our parents left (i was expecting it) (dont ask y or where they r) and im 12. we want to know how to snap her out of this phase somehow or find out whats wrongINEED help please?
You are really sweet for caring, your parents leaving is is harder on her than on you. She is younger and probably blames herself for their leaving. It Will take time for her to how to deal with the situtation. Maybe if she talks to a consulor at school.. Be patient with her and continue giving her the extra love that she needs. She is hurting pretty bad. With time it should get easier. God bless your familyINEED help please?
well the best way to help is just comfort her and make her feel better just give someone to talk to and let her no if anythings bothering her to tell you so you can helpINEED help please?
A 25 yr, old caring fulltime for a 6 and 12??
Your brother needs to see about getting you all in counseling.INEED help please?
Please consider getting counseling. What you are going through is difficult and you need some support. Under the circumstances it does sound like you and your brother are handling this as well as anyone could, but your sister's not managing so well. Hang in there, find a good support system. Church might help as well.things to do in miami
You are really sweet for caring, your parents leaving is is harder on her than on you. She is younger and probably blames herself for their leaving. It Will take time for her to how to deal with the situtation. Maybe if she talks to a consulor at school.. Be patient with her and continue giving her the extra love that she needs. She is hurting pretty bad. With time it should get easier. God bless your familyINEED help please?
well the best way to help is just comfort her and make her feel better just give someone to talk to and let her no if anythings bothering her to tell you so you can helpINEED help please?
A 25 yr, old caring fulltime for a 6 and 12??
Your brother needs to see about getting you all in counseling.INEED help please?
Please consider getting counseling. What you are going through is difficult and you need some support. Under the circumstances it does sound like you and your brother are handling this as well as anyone could, but your sister's not managing so well. Hang in there, find a good support system. Church might help as well.
My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
I need alot of help ! Im a single parent and my daughter just turned 6. She has pdd nos autism and is verbal.I admit I do curse ALOT but my daughter has started to repeat the curses that I say on a regular basis. Last nite we were coming home chuckecheese on public transportation and she was throwing a toy around and she kept hitting people with it so I took it from her. When I took the toy from her she had a fit. She said "give me my f*cking toy back!" Like 5 times . Everyone around us was gasping and totally shocked than she had a total meltdown and still cursed and told me to "let her f*cking coat go " over and over again. I have NEVER been so embarassed in my life and I have lots of embarassing moments but NOTHING tops this. It's been driving me NUTS. I already know I have to stop cursing PERIOD around her but how can I stop her cursing? She doesnt even know its a bad word , I was so upset when I got home that I spanked her and took her tv out of her room for misbehaving. She KNOWS she was misbehaving and being a bad girl. She is usually good and i can take her anywhere so I was shocked at the bratty behavior she showed last nite. She is heavy and made her body limp and i had to drag her off the train or we wouldve missed our stop all the while she's screaming f bombs! I dont know what to do. I tried to tell her its a bad word but she's still saying it .My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
I'm sure that, when you get your act cleaned up and your mouth washed out, and do it consistently, and long enough hers will clean up too. (Wouldn't hurt for both of you to get in church and expose her to some positive role models.)
PapawMy 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
To me, telling kids words are bad doesn't really mean anything. Tell her she's not allowed to use that word. That if she does, she will ( whatever)
Tell her you were wrong for saying it too. That if you say it you will (whatever)
Well, first don't use foul language. She is just doing what she sees you doing. Second, don't show her attention when she does it. If you give a lot of attention, she may do it to get that attention from you.My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
Stop using foul language in her presence. Children mimic their role models.
Could be scarlets syndrome.My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
if your gonna swear she will copy, easy as that really. you cant tell her off for thing you say yourself
wash her mouth out with soap
Liquid soap in the mouth.
Decades of parents have done this. No child was ever harmed.
You should win mother of the year teaching her those words.
;)
Ok lol I'll be serious. You've obviously not been a good mother teaching her those words but sit her down and talk to her and say that those are bad words. It's not use hitting a child, I should know because it won't do any good it will make her more bad because you hurting her that's what happens if my parents smack me (which is rarely but when they do it makes me behave more badly)
you reap what u sow... get a jar , or box, every time u swear put money or an item of yours in there, and have her do the same, if she (and/or u) go a day with no swearing then u can get one item out of the box, but for every bad word 1 item goes in the box, eventually she will learn it is not worth it to say bad words, and u will too. children learn best by example. No one can set a better then mom =)
I'm sure that, when you get your act cleaned up and your mouth washed out, and do it consistently, and long enough hers will clean up too. (Wouldn't hurt for both of you to get in church and expose her to some positive role models.)
PapawMy 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
To me, telling kids words are bad doesn't really mean anything. Tell her she's not allowed to use that word. That if she does, she will ( whatever)
Tell her you were wrong for saying it too. That if you say it you will (whatever)
Well, first don't use foul language. She is just doing what she sees you doing. Second, don't show her attention when she does it. If you give a lot of attention, she may do it to get that attention from you.My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
Stop using foul language in her presence. Children mimic their role models.
Could be scarlets syndrome.My 6 year old daughter wont stop cursing HELP?
if your gonna swear she will copy, easy as that really. you cant tell her off for thing you say yourself
wash her mouth out with soap
Liquid soap in the mouth.
Decades of parents have done this. No child was ever harmed.
You should win mother of the year teaching her those words.
;)
Ok lol I'll be serious. You've obviously not been a good mother teaching her those words but sit her down and talk to her and say that those are bad words. It's not use hitting a child, I should know because it won't do any good it will make her more bad because you hurting her that's what happens if my parents smack me (which is rarely but when they do it makes me behave more badly)
you reap what u sow... get a jar , or box, every time u swear put money or an item of yours in there, and have her do the same, if she (and/or u) go a day with no swearing then u can get one item out of the box, but for every bad word 1 item goes in the box, eventually she will learn it is not worth it to say bad words, and u will too. children learn best by example. No one can set a better then mom =)
Ok so i like this guy and idk what to think?
Well, i am staying in a motel for family reasons, I am 14. I like this boy who stays here he is 14 too. He has been here for a while it is like a family, long term based place. So anyways, I have like never talked to him, because I get so nervous around him. I can't tell if he likes me or not. I really think hes really cute and from what i have seen of him a very nice guy. Well, about two days ago, i went into my little sisters friends room, and he was in there. when i went in my mom said l8r to me that she saw him smile but he was looking down like nervous, idk. well, the whole time i was there he kept looking over at me and when id go to look at him hed look away. then, he was sitting in a chair and i went to pet their bunny, which was directly behind his chair. and he kept turning around in his chair to look at me and the bunny when my little sister and her friend were playing instruments. and my sisters friend was saying something about some girl crying on my moms shoulder and he thought she was saying i cried on her shoulder an he was all "so whats wrong with that i cry on my moms shoulder." but then she was all im not talking about her and hes like, oh uhm i dont do that i was kidding. so idk if he was trying to stick up for me in a way, maybe not though. and then my sisters friend dad saw me and her whispering and he was all "oh another girl likes -------" and ------- looked over at me and like half smiled but i couldnt tell if it was good or bad, i just looked at him and like nervously looked down. idk if any of this means anything, any advice. i know this is confusing but anything helps.
it's been about 2 weeks since that stuff, well now he hangs out with my brother and he comes in to play video games. well, he looks at me a lot but not that often because he is focused ont the games lol. also we went to chuckecheese fo rmy little sister and he came with us, and he didnt talk to me really but at the end he gave me his little ticket thing, he just handed it to me and we kept looking at eachother.
hm some other stuff, he does talk about girls he think r hot. but not all of the time. idk if he is just being a guy though.
im really shy around him, and i try not to be but it dosent work. i can barely look at him:/
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oh alsoo;about 4 months back a little girl was stayign here..no more than 6 or 7. she told me once she was with him and he saw me and he was with his friends and he said "break me off a piece of that" but i dont know if thats true, but maybe because she didnt know i liked him.
ok well today he come over, and he looked at me a lot and kinda smiled.Ok so i like this guy and idk what to think?
this story is so sweet:) i think you guys should talk. from what youve said i think that hes really cute and he sounds that he really likes you. if youre feeling brave one day and you two are alone, hug him. hugs are full of love. hugs always tell you deep down inside how you care about this guy. i dunno do what you feel you should do when the time comes something will happen, i dont know what but something will .Ok so i like this guy and idk what to think?
uhhh he probably likes you. take it while you can get it. most boys dont have high standards. better move quick, and if he is cute as you say, i know it is girrrrrrl im sure you gots great taste, if ya didnt, you wouldnt ask on yahoo! and honestly, guys do like a girl that would flirt with them, it reallllly does work and make them like you more. I would know, as i have studied the male gender. quite frequently.Ok so i like this guy and idk what to think?
ask him outOk so i like this guy and idk what to think?
ok first see who he likes and if he has a girl friend and then tell him you like him and is he really nice?
well what my opinion is to just start off by saying hi or how r u today wen u c him then you and him will feel a little more open and outgoing towards each other.and by wat u have sed it seems like he does like u coz i had the same prob i likedthis girl n we keep looking at each other then i eventually started talking to her and now we are going out... so yea just start off small until you feel comfortable
it's been about 2 weeks since that stuff, well now he hangs out with my brother and he comes in to play video games. well, he looks at me a lot but not that often because he is focused ont the games lol. also we went to chuckecheese fo rmy little sister and he came with us, and he didnt talk to me really but at the end he gave me his little ticket thing, he just handed it to me and we kept looking at eachother.
hm some other stuff, he does talk about girls he think r hot. but not all of the time. idk if he is just being a guy though.
im really shy around him, and i try not to be but it dosent work. i can barely look at him:/
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oh alsoo;about 4 months back a little girl was stayign here..no more than 6 or 7. she told me once she was with him and he saw me and he was with his friends and he said "break me off a piece of that" but i dont know if thats true, but maybe because she didnt know i liked him.
ok well today he come over, and he looked at me a lot and kinda smiled.Ok so i like this guy and idk what to think?
this story is so sweet:) i think you guys should talk. from what youve said i think that hes really cute and he sounds that he really likes you. if youre feeling brave one day and you two are alone, hug him. hugs are full of love. hugs always tell you deep down inside how you care about this guy. i dunno do what you feel you should do when the time comes something will happen, i dont know what but something will .Ok so i like this guy and idk what to think?
uhhh he probably likes you. take it while you can get it. most boys dont have high standards. better move quick, and if he is cute as you say, i know it is girrrrrrl im sure you gots great taste, if ya didnt, you wouldnt ask on yahoo! and honestly, guys do like a girl that would flirt with them, it reallllly does work and make them like you more. I would know, as i have studied the male gender. quite frequently.Ok so i like this guy and idk what to think?
ask him outOk so i like this guy and idk what to think?
ok first see who he likes and if he has a girl friend and then tell him you like him and is he really nice?
well what my opinion is to just start off by saying hi or how r u today wen u c him then you and him will feel a little more open and outgoing towards each other.and by wat u have sed it seems like he does like u coz i had the same prob i likedthis girl n we keep looking at each other then i eventually started talking to her and now we are going out... so yea just start off small until you feel comfortable
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